Is It Time To Stop Fighting Your Child’s Battles For Them

In watching a YouTube video made by a mom who wanted to go and fight her daughter's battle against a "bully", I couldn't help but remember my own child's trials and tribulations against bullies.  I used to step in and fight her battles for her.  Did I really do her any favours? First off, I... Continue Reading →

Shocking Discovery: You Don’t Owe Anyone Anything Nor Do They Owe You

Mother/Saint Teresa wasn't as completely unselfish as what we've been made to believe or she would have us believe.  Are you gasping at that statement yet? I'm sure that you are if you know anything about the woman. Yes, no doubt whatsoever she did many wonderful things for others throughout her life and devoted herself... Continue Reading →

How To Deal With An Estranged Child

It's Mother's Day but, I have a lot of negative emotions as a mother.  It's not just today but rather, it's every day.  I haven't seen my only child in over a year and a half.  Unfortunately, neither have her friends nor the rest of her family on both sides as she chose to be... Continue Reading →

Do We, Nature Or God Have Control

Do we really have control over our lives?   That's a question that I've been wrestling with for a good portion of my life.  I still don't have definitive answers.  I'm not sure that anyone on this planet truly does.  No matter what the psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists, theologists and social workers tell us that we... Continue Reading →

Don’t Let Other People Whine On Your Shoulder Constantly

Breathe. Breathe in through your nose deeply now, exhale through your mouth slowly. Feeling better? No? Do it again and keep doing it until you start to feel a bit more relaxed. MELLOW, mellow....mellow. Do you have people in your life who seem to keep talking about the same problems, over and over again but,... Continue Reading →

Follow Yourself Not Someone Else’s Footsteps

I've never been one to follow "The Crowd" in much of anything in my life.  I've always dared to take a different path and experience what lays along that road.  Oftentimes, it's led me somewhere that most others wouldn't find. In not following the crowd mentality, I have taken flack from those who have joined... Continue Reading →

Doing This Will Change Your Life!

Hugs to everyone! Calmness, peace and serenity. Not mellow right now?  Take a moment to chill out. MELLOW, mellow, mellow and more mellow. Take a deep breath, let out the tension and relax. Now smile...even if you don't feel like it.  It's a Fake It Till You Make It way of getting yourself into a... Continue Reading →

No One Has All of The Answers To Life’s Problems

Beware of those offering you the way to happiness, success and fulfilment via what one can consider a magic wand way of thinking, eating, behaving or rituals that they claim ensure that you'll have Life in your pocket.  Life doesn't work that way and what works for one, doesn't work for another for we are... Continue Reading →

About Worrying

For most of my life, I've felt that being happy was: Impossible Only possible if everything was going great If everyone else around me was feeling great and doing well I worried endlessly.  I still do.  I worry intensely and more often than not, unnecessarily about everything and everyone who is important to me and... Continue Reading →

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